A Small Excerpt From Lisa Caza’s NEWLY RELEASED Book ‘Finding Paradise After the Storm’
Paradise Found: New Love Relationships & How to Make Them Succeed
Every Love Will Be Different
This is one lesson that I personally learned relatively quickly: no matter how hard you try you will not ever experience the same kind of love twice. I have had a number of clients come to me to ‘complain’ that while they adore their new love partner, it just doesn’t ‘feel the same’ as what they had experienced with a past partner – and that they yearn to have that same love again. Well … no. It won’t feel the same … and it never will. It won’t matter who you are with, you will experience different dynamics and levels of love. I know that this is a rather hard pill to swallow, but it’s just the way it is. If you’re wanting to experience that same feeling of love, then unfortunately you’re going to have to return to that ex-partner because that’s the only way you’ll be able to fulfill that particular desire (and if that ex-partner was toxic and/or abusive in any way, then I definitely do not encourage you to do so!).
Every person is unique – therefore every relationship will be unique. Each and every relationship experience will have its own set of dynamics and its own energetic vibration. Once you come to a place of understanding and acceptance of this basic truth, you will then set yourself free from that restrictive viewpoint and will be able to truly embrace and enjoy the new relationship connection that you have in front of you.
© 2015 Lisa Caza, Finding Paradise After the Storm. Balboa Press.