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Spirit Dream Visits

Dreaming of Deceased Friends & Loved Ones: Are They Real Visitations From the Other Side?

My Experience and How to Tell If It’s Real

As many of you know, I don’t tend to do a lot of mediumship work. I actually don’t know why because I know I can do it. I guess I just don’t really like to focus on it much … unless I really have to …

Which leads me into saying, I definitely don’t have a shortage of experience with spirits and the paranormal – I have been visited quite a few times over the years by different spirits; all usually just trying to get some messages across to their loved ones (and I’m left with the detective work to try and figure out who they were trying to reach lol!). But what about spirits of my OWN dear friends or loved ones? Have I had any encounters with them?

YES!

However, I have to be honest here and say that sadly it has only occurred with me twice in my entire life – and in both instances the spirits came to visit me in my dreamworld. (I’ve been told by other readers that my lack of visits is due to my not using my mediumship abilities in my work lol. My bad …). The first occurrence was in the summer of 2000, and it was a visit with one of my good friends Ted who passed away in a car accident. The second was just recently: about a month ago and it was a visit from my ex-husband.

In my visit with Ted, he was reassuring me that he was okay and that I needed to stop crying over him so much. And strangely, the opposite occurred with my visit with my ex: he looked at me silently with such a profound grief, regret and sadness, and he then broke down like I’ve never seen him do before – and there I was holding him, comforting him, and telling him “it’s okay, it will be all right, you’ll be okay.” In each case, right after the main message was conveyed I woke up.  Obviously Ted’s intent with his visit was to comfort me and ease my grief. But with my ex, I spoke with another reader and she confirmed it: I performed an actual spirit rescue in my dream-state. It was my ex that was full of grief and couldn’t move on.

Now the main gist of this article: were those visits actually real? Can we tell the difference between a real dream visitation and that of our own imaginations?

Yes, they were real, and yes there is a huge difference between real dream visitations and dreams that we create ourselves. And I will give you the “clues” to watch out for (which were present in BOTH of my experiences). A real dream visitation will have the following:

  • The person visiting you in the dream will know full well that they have died.
  • If there are other people around you in the dream, they will not be able to see the person that’s visiting you.
  • The dreams themselves are quite vivid and you will always remember the details – and for the rest of your life.
  • A spirit usually can’t do visits of this nature for approximately one and a half months after the date of actual death (both my experiences happened in the same time frame of a month and a half after initial passing).
  • You will feel and know in your heart that the dream was a real communication.
  • Visitation dreams aren’t long or drawn out. They are usually simple, to the point, incredibly real, powerful, and then they are gone. Once the main reason for the visit or main message has been conveyed, that’s when you will usually wake up.
  • The communication is focused on reassurance, forgiveness, healing, and to let you know they are okay. If there is some warning your loved one has for you, it too will be to the point, and then backed with reassurance and a feeling of love and support through their presence.

If this happens to you, trust that a real dream visitation has occurred; know that your loved one is well, and that even after death they offer their love, reassurance, and support from beyond the physical.

Lisa Caza, 2017

 

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My Experience With Spirit Possession

Spirit Possession IS REAL – And Here’s How I Dealt With It

Well now, I bet you all never thought in a million years that you would see me write or talk about spirit possession. As many know for so many years I held a lot of skepticism regarding possession – mainly just because of course I never experienced it myself.

Well, I can’t say that anymore … and I have been forced to swallow my pride so to speak and accept that spirit possession DOES HAPPEN! Now, I know what you’re asking: “What in the HELL could have possibly  possessed (pardon the pun) Lisa Caza to change her beliefs?” Well, I’m about to tell you – and it isn’t very nice:

If you read my last blog post about Confronting & Finalizing Long-Standing Issues, then you obviously know that my ex-husband just recently crossed over in September. Well my dear friends … approximately a week after he passed that’s when my experience with spirit possession started.

Yup. It was him. And to be blunt, whenever Yvon and I least expected it he would “enter” into Yvon – possessing him.  Like I just said, it would happen when we least expected it – out of the blue – and just as quickly as he would possess him he would be gone. How do we know it was a spirit possession and that it was specifically my ex-husband?

  1. It was no coincidence that it started to occur just after he passed away. We NEVER EVER experienced spirit possession before.
  2. While being possessed, Yvon would say and/or do things that only my ex-husband would have said or done (and I will NOT speak in detail things that were said and done) – and Yvon didn’t ever know the actual behaviors, etc that my ex used to exhibit. And when I confronted Yvon about the behaviors that he exhibited, he felt so sorry and stated that he would never normally say or do such things – which of course is true.
  3. Yvon “lost time” – he wouldn’t remember a darn thing and admits to having periods of “black out” – no memory of anything he said or did.
  4. Yvon has some mediumship abilities and he admitted to feeling like he was “fighting off” the spirit of my ex on certain occasions.
  5. Once the spirit of my ex was HARSHLY confronted by both myself and Yvon – and also after I actually had a REAL visitation in a dream and I rescued him – we haven’t had any further occurrences … so far anyways.

This experience has rattled me – and again obviously changed my entire belief system regarding spirit possession. I don’t call myself the “skeptical psychic” for no reason LOL! I only talk about things that I personally experienced first hand in my life – because I have “proof” that whatever it is actually exists. So folks, it is no joke – and something that you really don’t want to mess around with. And should you find yourself in a situation where you believe that a spirit is possessing either yourself or someone you know, remember the 5 points that I highlighted above – for they are clues to watch out for.  Furthermore, if that is a situation that you’re in, take immediate measures to rid the spirit possession itself: confront the spirit very angrily and sternly (Yvon and I were yelling at the spirit one night – right out loud), smudge with burning sage your entire house as well as every person affected, call upon Archangel Michael for added protection, and even perform a “rescue” like I was basically forced to do in my visitation dream: tell the spirit it is okay, that everything is all right, and encourage the spirit to go to the light.

I have to admit too that the possession itself was starting to get very real and very scary for me because I knew that if we didn’t do something – and right quickly – things would just get worse: they would escalate and even become violent (especially considering who my ex-husband was – many know I experienced a lot of abuse from him in our marriage). So, with that said, again if you suspect a spirit possession, it is extremely important to address the possession as quickly as possible. Get rid of it! We didn’t need to do this, but even if you need to contact a priest or wiccan … DO IT!

I don’t mean to scare anyone, but I just wanted to make sure that everyone does understand the severity of a spirit possession and that it is actually no laughing matter (which yes that’s what I used to do whenever I saw something on television about it). Especially during this time of year – Halloween – the veil between worlds is at its thinnest or weakest; therefore making it a lot easier for spirits to communicate … and do some shit-disturbing if they’re so inclined LOL! So why not take this opportunity – possession or no possession – to give yourself some added protection by smudging with sage, wearing gemstones to protect from negativity and spirits, and FOR GOD SAKE DON’T USE NO DARN OUJIA BOARDS! LOL!!!!!!!!!!

Take care everyone … and all I have to say is this: a part of me is freaked out at my experience, but another part of me is grateful because not only have I learned something, it has also opened my mind to the idea that there are likely other concepts out there that I’ve had trouble accepting before but of which could very well be strong possibilities.

Just because you haven’t experienced something, it doesn’t mean that it doesn’t exist or doesn’t happen! It just means that you don’t have personal knowledge of it!

Lisa Caza, 2017

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